Selective Mutism

Selective mutism is an anxiety-based condition where a child is able to speak in some situations but finds it extremely difficult to speak in others, such as at school or around unfamiliar people. For many families, this can feel confusing and overwhelming.
With the right understanding and gentle support, children with selective mutism can gradually build confidence and find their voice. This section shares practical guidance, real experiences, and supportive strategies to help parents and educators understand selective mutism and support children step by step.

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When Silence Isn’t Shyness: Our Journey with Selective Mutism

Watching your child freeze when someone speaks to them is a helpless feeling many parents struggle to describe. When my son was four, he could talk endlessly at home but couldn’t say a single word at school — the beginning of our journey with Selective Mutism.

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Why Won’t My Child Talk at School? Understanding Selective Mutism in Young Children

Some children chatter endlessly at home but become completely silent the moment they walk into school. When this silence continues week after week, it can leave parents wondering whether it’s shyness — or something more.

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A Real Account of Stimulus Fading + Free Printable Brave Talking Ladder

This real account of stimulus fading shows how small, gentle steps can help a child gradually build confidence with speaking. You can also download a free printable Brave Talking Ladder to help support your child through the same step-by-step process.